Does anyone of you can measure beauty, strength, love,
purpose in life or talent?
I cannot measure any items mentioned above. These days, it
seems so hard to define the real meaning of beauty. It looks like the society, country
and media has a strong influence to people. The classification and standard of
beauty among others have been lift from having a fair skin, being thin and
young. Some countries have affected their beliefs in being beautiful, young
women are getting obsess with thin body, fair skin but in some other countries
they like tanned skin, curvy body and that’s how they define beauty. So in
every country and culture it varies the meaning of 'beautiful'.
Young women nowadays are pressured to conform to a certain
ideal beauty and body standards. Tons of people go overseas to get plastic
surgery just to make them look more attractive, thinner and young.
Physical beauty is really good but if you get obsessed being
too beautiful, thin and young; try to change your looks just too “fit in” to the
society you want to get somewhere is too much to handle.
I stand 5 feet and 4 inches tall but honestly, I kept on concealing
my insecurities regarding my height. I really want to get taller like 5’9” so what I did is I drink herbal teas, supplements but
as I get older, I've learned to accept the fact that there’s no way I could get
taller than 5’4”. Since my Mother only stands 5 feet and my Father is at 5’7”,
so the better solution is acceptance. J
One more thing, there came a time that I felt so unattractive
because of my weight, I look too thin. To the point I don’t want to look in the
mirror. I've realized that my insecurity hit again then I taught myself the
word acceptance – AGAIN. J
It’s just a cycle you know, felt sad and insecure then learn to accept because
the truth is WE ARE BEAUTIFUL in our own ways. As they say, Beauty is in the
eye of the beholder. Stop searching validation of beauty and social acceptance.
Your appearance is not a reflection of who you are. Live
your life because you are beautiful!
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